"Next time you and ivan the same thing"

Now I know why Ivan always said I care TOO MUCH.

Misinterpret people's good intentions: I told you about the group outing because I do not want to make you feel left out.

Misinterpret people's good intentions: I asked you not to bring your baby along because the atmosphere is not very suitable for your kid.

Misinterpret people's good intentions: I do not know and do not care what other people have been saying or thinking about you. I didn't ask you to keep dumping your kid with your wife. Also, I never say your wife is not doing anything. Please do not bring your wife and MY HUSBAND into the picture. You do not need to tell me that your wife has done alot. I do not need to know because its your family issue. I only give that suggestion when you said you are coming for awhile. So since its just awhile, why don't your wife help you take care for awhile. Wouldn't that be the best scenario for everyone? And do not compare me and Ivan, more than often we work things out together sensibly. DO NOT ALWAYS THINK PEOPLE ARE PICKING ON YOU. You are not the centre of my universe. Nobody is so free to always pick on you.

Misinterpret my good intentions: I do not want you to carry on doing such actions and then always let people "sing" behind your back. SO i am telling you nicely that it will be rude to do that. Its not WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND. We had been always making concessions for you if you do not notice. We understand your commitments. WE might not be parents yet but we all do know how to set a good example to our kids next time.

My life is extremely interesting on its own. I do not have the extra time or effort to poke my nose into your life and comment about it.

Yes I care too much. I always care about your feelings and I do not see that coming from you.

Think before you speak. Mince before you think you wanna spit.